Everybody want to get something. You , me – all of us want to get something in life. Want exists because we exists. Desire comes in to existence the same moment when we come to existence on this earth. Desires are root of life. If some saint, some religious guru ask you to kill your desires because desires takes you to door of hell, than just get attentive. We can not kill our desires because desires are root of life. We can kill desires only i we kill ourselves. How can you remove the fact which is linked to your existence. Your desire & you both have taken birth together. Its very simple, Whatever is part of your existence you can not remove it, you can not kill it. Its like trying to be alive without breathing.
As I always say, answer to all questions is not in books, We ourself have the answer. Answer is within us. We have distant ourselves from art of self identification . Actually, we have never been taught to get in conversation with ourselves. First of all try to understand that we are part of nature. We are nature. We are part of natural eco system. Our body can communicate with nature only. How hard we try, we can never set communication with materialistic objects. So before you understand mystry or science of pain/sorrow, make it clear that you are natural. Every part , every cell of your body is made up from nature, not from science. Science is actually researching nature. How can we set communication with science when science itself has not understood nature completely. We can set communication with nature.
I will not discuss that why are you in pain. Anything! you can be in pain because of anything. You have not got your dream spouse. You are not able to buy your dream house, Or you are not at a stage in your career where you always wanted to be. It can be anything, but common to all of above is PAIN. One fact I discussed you in the beginning of this article, that we are natural. If we are natural, then why nature has given us the pain. Is nature or god is so cruel that it has gifted us with pain. Can god or nature be wrong? To make it more clear I will take you at the time of your birth. Just at the time of taking your birth, there was somebody who was in great pain. It was such an amount of pain whosoever he/she is was not able to bear it. So when you were trying to come in existence there was somebody who was almost at the door of death. You are correct. This was your mother. Your mother was going through intolerable pain. She was suffering it , experiencing it, because she wanted something….. she wanted you. It was you which was motivating her to bear the pain. & She got the reward of pain, it was you.
PAIN ALWAYS REWARDS YOU
Just go through below lines & you will understand it more
“Experience life in all possible ways — good-bad, bitter-sweet, dark-light, summer-winter. Experience all the dualities. Don’t be afraid of experience, because the more experience you have, the more mature you become.”
OSHO
“Without pain, there would be no suffering. Without suffering, we would never learn from our mistakes. To make it right, pain and suffering is the key to all windows, without it, there is no way of life. “
Angelina Jolie
So now you can understand why nature has gifted us with pain. Pain is must. As much as our breaths. Pain is positive. We must have pain in our life. If we are not going through the pain in out life than be sure that we are not moving ahead. We are not experiencing anything. So love the pain you are going through. Sometime its like when our child do not get the grades or marks in his/her school exams, we scream at him/her. We even punish & child goes through pain. Why are we subjecting our own child to pain. Because we want pain to reward him/her. Its same with you. You are child of nature, You are child of god. Nature/God want to see best out of you. You are still not at best. Once you are best you will be getting want you always wanted.
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