There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved.
Who don’t want to be loved? Well, it’s true that we get hurt sometime in our life but we don’t invite that situation knowingly. Love is a tricky thing because it’s something we both give and receive. Sometimes, we just fall in a situation or have bad communication that other person just looses interest in us, but we never want it that way.
Can we develop our temperament to a level, which is loved & appreciated by most, if not by all?
Yes! Sometimes it’s a little tough than it sounds but you can. Just try out these easy to adapt points & see how many hearts you win over. This could help you to receive adoration & improve your relations.
1. Listen patiently
If you want to be a super hit in your circle, the most important factor is listen patiently. I have one of my friend who is favourite of all. He is neither brilliant nor the meritorious but he is a hit among all friends. The only reason for liking to him by his friends is that he listens to all. I always go to that friend whenever I have anything exciting or even if I am in the deep well of sorrow. Earlier, I was not aware of his this super natural quality, but as the time passed I noticed that Its not only me but other friends are also doing the same thing. He never offer a solution to any of our problem but he just makes sure that he listen patiently each & everything & that’s it, he is a super hit.
2. Keep interest in others interests
Genuinely, be genuine to others interests. Anyone who approaches you is just to share his/her experience, problem or excitement. Most of them just want to get their emotions out & that’s all. You can be your friends or relatives best pal only by keeping a genuine interest in their life.
3. Love yourself
This is a bit tricky. If you love yourself, you will love others & if you love others you will get love in return. So, recognize your own worth & enfold yourself in admiration & appreciation.
4. Love nature
This is spreading of love. Take the responsibility of giving love to all, especially for nature which can never ditch you in life
5. Keep your funny bone alive
Humour is the best way to keep the crowd around you. A funny person is always liked by all. Try to look at a situation with a lighter mood & you can always share jokes.
6. Sense of gratitude
If you have got help from anybody in your life always have a sense of gratitude for them. We should always be thankful to every last person who has done a smallest favour to our life.
8 Be presentable
Do you ever like a person who is no tidy & not taking care of hygiene? Your answer to this itself is an explanation of this point.
9. be Confident
Do you mind your own emotions? Are you able to take control of flow of your own thoughts? If you yourself is a confused or not clear in thoughts for yourself how are you going to help other.
10. Integrity
This is last point but of the utmost significance. If you try to play with others emotions & he/she gets a slightest hint of this, you are gone. Once you loose love & respect, you will never get the same again in your life.
